SEX

SEX is an integral desideratum of the human cycle. Without sex no life can give birth to its future. But unfortunately only a minor of the peeps are acknowledged about the other side of this coin "sex". As we all know that sex is a word used to justify a physical intimacy between two people simultaneously it’s a word to determine ones   gender. Sex is NOT bounded to two main categories: Male & Female. A community named LGBT exposes the hidden sex truth in the world.

                           LGBT stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender. It’s a community formed in America and in use since 1990's who fights for the rights of LGBT people.  LGBT defines the different forms of sex which are considered to be a taboo. Lesbians are homosexual females who feel comfortable in getting physically intimate with another female and see only a female as their life partner, it’s the same for Gay’s but they are male homosexuals like Harish Iyer. Bisexuals are those who get attracted to both main categories of sex (Male & Female). A bisexual can be a boy or a girl and its clean cut example is Lady Gaga. A transgender is a person who willingly desires to transform his/her gender from a male to a female or vice-versa.  A transgender completely modifies his/her appearance from head to toe and even the private parts are changed. It’s not that peeps with different sex forms were immediately accepted in America because even they had to face several regional and social unbalance which led to horrifying demise of Bobby Griffith (gay) , Matthew Shepard (gay), Brandon Teena (trans man) and many others. A movie was made on the real lives of Bobby Griffith (Prayers for Bobby) in 2009 and on Brandon Teena (Boys Don’t Cry) in 1999. All these movies depicted the harsh realities faced by the LGBT peeps and the hatred, criticism dominancy faced by them. In India this issue is taking its exposure rise and a few of them are coming out accepting their sex as LGBT. But in India the knowledge for sex and its different forms also lacks.

Late Matthew Shepard

Late Brandon Teena

The Teenage is unaware of sex education and for then sex education is derived from their friends who themselves have no sex education. The other teacher for their sex quarries are Sex Education from X-rated films which leads to creating a vulgar and lascivious image of women in front of them. They commence to glance at the women as harlot or sex objects. Sex according to me is a true way of expressing your love towards your better half. It’s that physical touch which only a husband and wife must share and no-one else. Premarital sex is being given a lot of significance at present. Premarital sex is seen as a symbol of true love and trust between those two people who covenant that they will never elude on the other which on the contrary is very lame and immature assessment. Such fatal philosophies on sex and premarital sex lead to devastating crimes like child abortion, rapes, kidnappings and molestations.  WE ARE NO-ONE TO DETERMINE ONES SEX NOR DELIBERATIVELY FORCE OTHERS TO ACCEPT THE DIFFERENT FORMS OF SEX. The Youth must be open to their PARENTS, CLOSE FAMILY MEMBERS or FAMILY DOCTORS ABOUT THEIR SEX DRIVES because this will lead to a happy and better future with treasure of knowledge and open evaluation.

                                                                                           MANASVI SHARMA

                                                                                           BJMC (3rd sem)